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Posted here to keep sniffer-spoder-bots out of the thread.
My wife has been very good friends with a fellow dog trainer in NJ for over 15 years. This is the guy who has been flown down here to south Florida 4 times now (averaging twice a year now) and his seminars are usually pretty full (the ones I take pictures and videos for). Normally the event is Friday evening, all day Saturday and all day Sunday. This past weekend was the most recent.
Unfortunately, this past weekend may be the last weekend heâs asked to come down. He brought along with him his mistress (yes, heâs married). Most of the members of the sponsoring clubs know him and his wife fairly well but he brought his mistress with him for a honeymoon-like weekend (his words). They were acting a little unprofessionally Friday evening and very unprofessional during the dinner Friday night. Iâll let your imagination fill in the details.
He feels justified in this since he is going though a "mid-life crisis" and his shrink apparently OKâed this (yeah, right). His initial story was that sheâs an apprentice trainer with him but that story quickly fell apart when it became clear she didnât know the different between a boxer and a bulldog nor could she pronounce schutzhund. She wasnât even there for the seminar on Saturday. There was no training planned on Sunday ether so he and she could spend the day together.
Members of both clubs were pissed at him for doing this to them. The club basically sponsored his weekend f---fest, all he had to do was pay for one plane ticket. My wife is extremely angry and hurt that he threw this onto her (she is friends with his wife, too). He thinks heâs only hurting himself (I guess he doesnât think of his wife?) She also feels like he took advantage of her so he could do this.
She sent him a text message yesterday morning saying that she hopes heâs glad for breaking her heart and taking advantage of the clubs that had so much trust in him. The real killer is that he tried to lecture my wife that she needs to treat me better (WTF?).
He said we should be nice to Barbie (nickname for his mistress since sheâs all plastic) since sheâs allegedly been all compliments towards my wife. Yeah, she said that my wifeâs hair is shiny.
Iâve thought about sending him an email saying that I will personally make sure he never has the opportunity to take advantage of my wife or hurt her like that ever again but I donât want to step into the middle of this.
Where are the hackers I used to know? It would be fun to have a nice message on his website.:sigh2:
My wife has been very good friends with a fellow dog trainer in NJ for over 15 years. This is the guy who has been flown down here to south Florida 4 times now (averaging twice a year now) and his seminars are usually pretty full (the ones I take pictures and videos for). Normally the event is Friday evening, all day Saturday and all day Sunday. This past weekend was the most recent.
Unfortunately, this past weekend may be the last weekend heâs asked to come down. He brought along with him his mistress (yes, heâs married). Most of the members of the sponsoring clubs know him and his wife fairly well but he brought his mistress with him for a honeymoon-like weekend (his words). They were acting a little unprofessionally Friday evening and very unprofessional during the dinner Friday night. Iâll let your imagination fill in the details.
He feels justified in this since he is going though a "mid-life crisis" and his shrink apparently OKâed this (yeah, right). His initial story was that sheâs an apprentice trainer with him but that story quickly fell apart when it became clear she didnât know the different between a boxer and a bulldog nor could she pronounce schutzhund. She wasnât even there for the seminar on Saturday. There was no training planned on Sunday ether so he and she could spend the day together.
Members of both clubs were pissed at him for doing this to them. The club basically sponsored his weekend f---fest, all he had to do was pay for one plane ticket. My wife is extremely angry and hurt that he threw this onto her (she is friends with his wife, too). He thinks heâs only hurting himself (I guess he doesnât think of his wife?) She also feels like he took advantage of her so he could do this.
She sent him a text message yesterday morning saying that she hopes heâs glad for breaking her heart and taking advantage of the clubs that had so much trust in him. The real killer is that he tried to lecture my wife that she needs to treat me better (WTF?).
He said we should be nice to Barbie (nickname for his mistress since sheâs all plastic) since sheâs allegedly been all compliments towards my wife. Yeah, she said that my wifeâs hair is shiny.
Iâve thought about sending him an email saying that I will personally make sure he never has the opportunity to take advantage of my wife or hurt her like that ever again but I donât want to step into the middle of this.
Where are the hackers I used to know? It would be fun to have a nice message on his website.:sigh2:
