I send sellers a paypal masspay from available funds when I buy a domain and have done so up to $xx,xxx before, if I don't trust someone to deliver a domain then I don't buy it usually. I have found many people will push a domain to you before you even pay if they are new with no trader ratings and you request this early on in the deal, esp if you have a high trader rating...you would be suprised. Thing is, they are actually somewhat protected at their registar in most cases if for some reason they were not paid for the domain and it's pretty easy to prove this and have it "unpushed"
Now, escrow.com of course if the best choice but you can get screwed there too...esp if someone immediately puts a name in privacy you push to them and then claims they never got it..or if you push it to an account with details different than the person buying it...so be careful because there are alot of damn scammers lately and we just had someone trying to steal a domain via escrow and it's a big headache to say the least! Pay attention to details! :yes: