I have noticed a decline in the SEDO sales support also. Lack of communication and of course time difference between - SEDO, buyer and seller is really causing problems.
I think they really need to take a step back and look at this process.
Their is no reason why SEDO should not pay out as soon as they have confirmation of transfer.. especially if you are being paid via Paypal.. and the dates you have given is more than enough time for a Wire Transfer..
And judging by the lack of response today, they must have a day off also.
The Domain Parking industry is going to be changing in the next few months after announcments at the ICANN conference that some of the big boys are getting in on the game, promises of $3.95 transfers and new registration to Parkers.. 75% profit share to 3000+ domain owners, and the ability to integrate your own Standard banners and SkyScrapers Banners into the page infrastructure, without eyesore frames.
The future is looking good for us...
I think what needs to be done is for SEDO to take control of the transfers themselves and then they can deal with the buyer(we push the domains into a SEDO account on respective registrar), meantime you have offloaded the domain and you have the cash in your account. The rest is up to SEDO that way they can earn their commission...
I hate to say this as SEDO have been good to me, likewise I have been good to them.. but as of late, I have not been impressed.