It's no more than a scoring system in a playing field. The more you play and hit the target, the more you score. But it's not a sure indication of your overall character unless you get penalized for going against the rules and you get a negative mark.
Some players are not active - they just want to watch the game or other players make their moves then give their comments afterward.
If you want to deal with them, you got to watch first from the sidelines.