It looks like your real expertise and passion is in development, and that the domain name is not that relevant to what you are doing. The more success you have with a name that is not dotcom, the more likely it is you are going to run into problems. You are either going to be giving free business to the one who has the dotcom, or you are going to be perceived as an amateur by your audience.
And when you build businesses around tough to spell names, the problems are obvious. Perception is reality. Here are a few examples of what I am talking about....hypothetical examples.
Say you are about to make a one million dollar home purchase and you Google some leads for real estate agents, mortgage brokers, home builders, etc. Below is what you find:
Properties4You.biz
CaliforniaFinance.com
FarsashAzeri.com
FrankWhite.com
WeLendCash.us
SoCalRealEstate.com
WestsideHomes.com
BestLAProperties.net
The ones who might get the business are below.
CalifornaiFinance.com
FrankWhite.com
SoCalRealEstate.com
WestsideHomes.com
There's just a certain way that things are done at the top levels. Image is very important. If you watch NFL football on Fox or CBS or ESPN who will notice that practically everyone talking has a name that is common for an american white male.
The announcers will say...."Back to John, Mike, and Ron". Or back to Troy and Joe. Thanks Pam. Back to Al and Chris. That is part of the branding process. The people they have in the booth calling the games, and the people they have sitting around taking about the games in the studio, for the most part, are going to have short, easy to spell and remember names. They are selling a product, and everyone in the audience knows someone with one of the announcer's names. That is a connection. Throw some oddball name out there, and now you are planting seeds that take the audience away from the product, either by confusion, or lack of trust.
Now that is a bit of a tangent from domain names, but the point I am making is that there is an expectation from the audience, and it would be just too much of a hassle to constantly be sending it back to people with obscure names that were hard to pronounce. It would take away from the rhythm of the production.
So, if you want to be an on air personality for NFL Football, you better damn well have a common name, or at least go by that moniker. That's just the way it is. There are not a lot of exceptions.