I think what might be happening here is that registrars are getting together (probably over vast amounts of beer at ICANN meetings) and singling out certain people to abuse. That way they can write them off as nut jobs or conspiracy theorists. That is my current hypothesis. Joking aside, in any industry, especially relatively young ones like ours, there are bound to be some unscrupulous entities out there. In this industry this includes registrars, registrants, and registries. I have dealt with my fair share of all of these and none can be said to be made up of all innocent people. Most of the people out there are honest and want to do the right thing in regards to running their business and serving the customer. It's a balancing act and many times the two do not, and cannot, coincided. Most of the time the best you can do is hope to make 90% of your customers happy. The rest can never be satisfied or will just not agree with what you are doing. DomainSite is an honest company ran by honest and well intentioned people, as are many other registrars. The small subset of registrars that actually intentionally screw the customer is low. If this was their common practice then they would not be able to stay in business as a registrar for very long. There are plenty of choices out there so that a customer can choose to do business with another registrar.
Sometimes when you only see one side of the picture things seem very black and white. There are certain ways that you would like things to be done so that your needs are best served. Unfortunately, for the whole system to work everyone needs to be kept satisfied, or mostly satisfied, and be allowed to make decisions and operate in the way they best determine, under the law, in order to stay in business. In this industry there are many gray areas that many people are unsure of that will be dealt with as time rolls on. ICANN will adopt new policies, people will get sued, laws will be passed, etc. If a registrar is truly manipulating whois data and changing it from that of a current and legitimate registrant, the registrar is probably doing something illegal and can be sued in a court of law. If anyone has had this happen to them, I would suggest taking this approach since that kind of behavior should not be tolerated.
As for what Bob Parsons said regarding the registries customers being the registrars and not being the registrants. That is a true statement. Although many of the things that a registrar and registry might want to do should be geared towards serving the end user of the product, there are many times when the registry needs to focus on the needs of a registrar. A registry would love nothing more than to do away with registrars and require all end users to go directly to them. I'm sure some people might think this would be a good thing. A lot of people also remember the Network Solutions monopoly in the days of old and are not too keen on that idea. Too many times a registry will try to funnel more money through them by wanting to provide a service that is already being provided by others. Many times, these efforts are cloaked by telling the world that what they are doing is for the good of the consumer. WLS was a prime example of this. There are many industries where the originator of a product needs to focus on the needs of their immediate customer, the distributer. While their goal should always be to provide a quality product, they should not be constantly meddling in and trying to take business away from their distributors. Especially in an industry that was created as a way of deposing of a monopoly in the first place.
Nothing is really about the consumer in any business. Yes, I said it. The consumer is a requirement by most companies to make money so it is generally accepted that they need to be satisfied, but the real motivation is the money and not the consumer. Most companies would gladly get rid of all of their consumers if they could keep generating the same amount of revenue. Customers are expensive, they have demands, they sue you, and there are some that can never be fully satisfied. As a customer of many products myself I am not exactly ecstatic over this love/hate relationship, but I also understand it. I also understand there are times when a company that I am doing business with may not be able to run their business in a way that would most satisfy me. If I don't like it I go elsewhere, if possible. If I'm mostly satisfied, I stay. If they are doing something illegal, I would probably sue them. This should not be misconstrued with me saying that customer service is not important. Customer service is very important to the vast majority of businesses, registrars included. I'm just saying good customer service is not the motivating and that the motivating factor is the money generated by delivering good service.
This post is getting a bit long, I apologize. I think what all of this boils down to perspective. One persons perspective on a given situation will probably differ from another. I don't see rampant and intentional abuse by registrars in an effort to steal domain names away from customers (although I am sure there are cases where it happens). It appears that some people do, and maybe rightly so by their own experience.
OK, I'm done. This is my last post to this thread. Renew early, renew often, and for the love of Pete keep your whois info up to date.