isnt marriage more than just talking and saying "yes" or "no"? surely before all of this, the sex was systematically expected by each other. They both took care of each other, cared for each other and loved each other.
The couple are a law themselves which should have more power than anything else outside of them. I hate it when others get involved with others affairs. its none of anyones F***ing business. If she didnt want him to "do it" with her, then she would have divorced him ages ago. He has more rights over her than the nursing home police. imo.