So, you want to earn our trust, but you admit to spamming because you "have to let [us] guys know [you] are out [t]here"? Isn't that pretty much the reason all spam exists -- people lack the creativity or morals to use other marketing means to spread the word, and resort to spamming instead? Spam, however, it is not an ethical marketing medium. As a matter of fact, there are strict policies against using WHOIS data for unsolicited emails, as you should know, being such an established domainer.
Personally, I think you would have been better off coming to these boards, and spreading the words using legitimate marketing practices, not spam. I honestly would have signed up, because I could use a little money right now. But I, too, have hangups with using an admitted spammer (who travels to Amsterdam peddling raunchy porn, no less, but that's another matter) as a business associate.
Next time, perhaps you will reconsider your choice of marketing strategies for the betterment of the Internet, and the success of your business.