MoneyBookers stinks. I had a transaction with them that took weeks to complete. It was a $600 transaction and it took Moneybookers about 2 weeks to give me an account verification so I can retrieve the funds. Then I did a $300 transfer to my bank which was suppose to cost about $3. When I got the money it was $25 off plus moneybookers took the $3. I email MB and they never replied...I emailed again a week later rather angrily..finally someone replied saying to check the bank and that wire transfers can sometimes get fees from incoming bank. Of course I already checked my bank and they said no fees and that sender would have to check route. I was really ticked. Moneybookers wouldn't help and kept telling me it was receiving end...which I think is total BS. I know that senders are the ones that get the fees. I asked for the info from MoneyBookers but they never gave it..I gave up after about a month of this crap and never logged into the account again. Sad I didn't take all the money out at once so I was charged another $25 to get the rest of my money out.
MB stinks...it has really crappy support and the site itself is budget at best. Maybe for non-us residents it's a good deal but imho despite the .01% of problems at Paypal they are still the best. Some have bad experiences but I really have a peave about people blaming everyone but themselves for problems. Seems like many paypal issues could be resolved if their TOS was read and followed. Sure there is risk but that's business.
Also if you got the $1400 chargeback expect the rest of the money to get pulled eventually too. I am not sure about DCG's advice but it's easy enough to send a CD to the person with confirmed shipping and signature request. Then you are locked for the paypal protection.
Sell a domain...tell the buyer he must provide his confirmed mailing address. Ship a CD to him via confirmed delivery confirmation with signature request.
Or you can just use an escrow service.
For $4k I would unless the person had great reputation.