Thank you all for your responses. Sometimes one just has to surrender to fate. I had the opportunity to rethink my priorities and to realize I was spending a lot of time apart from my family. Life is short, it really is, no matter if you're 75 or 100 years old it's never enough. So the lesson I learned is that one needs to shed all conflicts, arguments and petite day to day items and focus on the actual people that form family: spouses, parents, sisters and brothers. I have decided to substantially lessen the time I spend on forums etc. I will miss all the good people here but I do need to stay much closer to family than in the past. I am not retiring from our great industry but truly need to think about my family's health and well-being at this time, especially with the holidays coming up. I wish to all of you that celebrate Thanksgiving to spend an extra couple of hours that day thinking not about the food and the drinks but about your mom and dad and wife and husband and kids. Tell them you love them all. You might not have the chance later on.