Dig deep and find your reason for domaining and you will be able to succeed.
There is no get rich quick scheme in domaining. Most here also have day jobs, only a small percentage make a full time living at it.
A few members here and on other forums are schemers and want to sell you 'stuff' that is usually not up to the hype. Some sell names with "traffic" that vanishes mysteriously after you buy the names. A few trade info for your email and are then relentless with their hype. Lots of nice people here at DNF are generous to answer questions.
The market is changing, what make money a few years (ie parking ppc) doesn't nearly deliver the same return anymore.
Read, read, read....there are some good books out there for free if you search the internet, the ones "for sale" are pretty much infromation you can learn here.