Sadam has killed more muslims than any other single person in the world. He killed thousands of innocent Kuwaitis, Kurdish and Shiate muslims including women, children and old people(all muslims). Even as of today Sunni muslims are killing Shiate muslims every day in Iraq. Please don't blame America for that.
If someone comes in my house and kills my mother, sister, daughter, son, brother or father, believe me I will do the same. I had told my preacher not to teach me how to forgive someone who harmed my family. I'm sorry, that's not OK.