Open Letter to toho

[mohno]

I started this in http://www.dnforum.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=31844
However, the thread is not appropriate place to continue.
So I made a new thread here.
This is an open letter to toho.

I have 2 requests to him.

1) Please write here who is a gay you mentioned once in my site.
I'm talking about the message #866 in http://www.hostingfan.com/domain/past/3.html .
More accuracy, he wrote "he must be a gay."
So, just post who is he.

2) Please return codename.com and utamaro.com.
Once you said that you can do anything if you can.
It's time to do.
Please return the domains to me.

Please focus on only the fact.
We think different.
I don't hear your opinions.
You don't hear my opinions.
It just waste time to try to talk opinions.

By the way, I apologize about the situation, everyone.
I understand what I'm doing, actually.
So, please don't preach me at the moment.
I'll follow the moderator's decisoin after this thread.

 

[peter]

why do you need to involve 2000 people in your little love affair?
Have you heard of alittle thing called email?

 

[mohno]

Sorry, icehole.
Actually, "Misc. Forum" is a toho's suggestion when I continue.
I hope that this will be end soon.

 

[peter]

ok, I don't really mind.

I hope you make peace with each other

 

[mohno]

(quote from http://www.dnforum.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=31844)
> But I could continue, if you want.
> Go ahead Ohno.

You should do what you said, toho.

 

[mole]

Aiya, PM

 

[Mr Webname]

Yes common guys this is not the place - sort out your dirty washing PRIVATELY please.

 

[mohno]

Again, I apologize about the situation.
Of cource, it should be done privately in typical case.
However, he did such thing in public space first in http://www.dnforum.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=31844
If he didn't, I didn't start this.
I just hope his reply will be posted soon.

 

[.com.net.org]

hope you guys solve this quickly and nicely.

 

[lotsofissues]

If you want to bring this fight open for public enjoyment then can you at least summarize the context?

 

[mohno]

It's difficult to keep fairness to say the story from one-side.
I'll try.

I left the domain "codename.com" to him as his request.
It's my favourite though.
He gave me a promise for the domain.
"utamaro.com" is not related to this but I left it (instead of
another one) on our friendship I believed at that moment.
I think he understand well about it.

After a time, we found we think differently.
People think differently each other, of cource.
He, however, blamed me about it.
I can't believe he will keep the promise.
Actually, it's impossible because I no longer trust him.
He don't have decent reasons to own the domains.
Actually, I regret many things besides the 2 domains.

It's the story from my side.
I think he have another story.
So I don't try to figure out "which is right".
Anyway, it's the fact he have no chance to do the promise.
If he have no decent reasons to own the domains,
he have to return them to me.
This is the summary for 2.

He said that a person should go out here in another thread.
I don't argue about the case.
I think, however, here is not good place to anybody
who blames their friends behind a wall.
If you want to do, it should be done in private area, e.g., email.
However, he did on public place, i.e., my site.
Of cource, "toho should go out here" is just my opinion.
If he will be here after writing the person's name,
it's his decision.
This is the summary for 1.

I don't think he will care what I say in private email.
(I don't care what he say privately, of cource.)
That's why I started this as an open letter.

 

[mohno]

Please understand I don't intend to blame gay people.
If they are cool, there is big difference between saying "he must be a gay" and "he must be cool".

 

[puxa2]

Wish you guys the best with resolving this.

 

[toho]

Mohno,

Pity's self.

This community is not the playground of a child.
I am embarrassed by your juvenile behavior.
Because I am Japanese too.

Our relation is already finished last year.
It resembles with to say to return a thing to the woman who parted.
At that time you lost several friends simultaneously.
Usually the person reconsiders.
But you did not.

Your action is affront to COMMON SENSE.

My advise.
You should learn diplomacy.
The people does not intend to give bait to the barking dog.

It is your freedom to say loud.
However, there is the freedom that does not do the answer.
I am not join the trash talking.

Because I love this community.

- toho -

 

[mohno]

toho, please don't obscure the issues.
I don't hear your opinions.

1. I'm not sure why you hesitate to write the name
if you think it's not serious.
Anyway, if you don't answer the name in the next reply
(or no reply), I'll do for you then.

2. It's more important to keep a promise when not having
friendship rather than when having friendship.
Typically, a man gives a thing to a woman without any promise
when he loves her. So, this is not the case.
The domain was my favourite.
So you gave me the promise as you remember.
Now you admit you are a man who will break a promise easily
after someone is against your opinion.
Is it common sense?

 

[mole]

This is very regretting.

 

[Spider]

So Mohno gave Toho codename.com in exchange for utamaro.com and then something happened and now Toho wont give Mohno utamaro.com? I am guessing you want our opinions since you posted this in public but it's hard to understand exactly what is going on here. Maybe someone can decode these 2 statements and give us a better understanding on what's going on here.

 

[mohno]

I gave him both.

 

[stuff]

Originally posted by mohno
I gave him both.

For what`? For FREE?

 

[Spider]

So you gave him 2 domains and he gave you what? What was his end of the deal?