If you made a payment online and mistakenly entered the wrong routing or acct number and your payment was never processed and you were charged a late fee, is that your fault or the fault of the payment system?
Not all payment systems are alike, just like automated catch systems are no all alike, one might catch it and the other not... Was is it intentional? nothing you posted suggested that it was, So because their not as efficient as NameJet, you call them douchebags?... Seem you have a problem accepting responsibility.
Your bank analogy has no bearing on this situation. I'm not arguing that every mistake I make in life should be forgiven. And I would have no problem accepting responsibility if I felt that my error was the cause of this charge, but it's not my typo that caused Snapnames to implement a policy of charging for backorders that they don't actually perform. That's the point. Snapnames should not EVER be charging backorder fees unless they're actually performing a backorder. You're getting hung up on the typo, but it's irrelevant to my argument. Whether I entered the name on purpose or by mistake, they shouldn't pretend to be performing backorders when none are actually happening. And yeah, I think that they know the difference between whether a domain is already registered or not, so I'm having a tough time attributing this to simple error especially since it seems this problem has been brought to their attention in the past.
In any case, it's not just me that feels that Snapnames should differentiate between available and registered domains, even Snapnames agrees with me. Here's what it says on their front page:
"Just search the Snapnames database for the domain you want, and we'll tell you if it is available now, or if it's expected to be available within the next 30 days."
Too bad they don't actually honor that promise.
To their credit, Snapnames refunded my money. I'm not happy that it was as difficult as it was to resolve this, and I'm even less happy that the problem persists so that others may end up in the same place, but at least in this case they made good. You apparently think that what they did was ok. No problem. Next time you put in a $500 bid on a typoed domain that is actually available for registration, go ahead and pay them. I think I'll continue to handle things my way regardless of your opinion.