NamePopper, i owe you this... here is what i think should have happened:
First introduce a voluntary membership syste. Do not take away any features from non-paying members. Introduce an entry special. THose who become mebers in the next 30 days get a discount or a coon title ('Founder') or something.
Second, after a few weeks, introduce additional membership features. Features like a larger mailbox, or the ability to switch avatar at will without paying DNF.
Third after a few months, restrict the live auction to paying members only. Keep all the other forum features accessible, including posting domains for sale. Make a members-only sale section which anyone, even guests could browse but not post in. make the non-members sale section only visible to registered members. THis way, everyone can offer domains for sale, but paying members have theirs exposed to the outside world.
Collect a small fee on every 'Domains wanted' thread ($2 ?)
Next, create a dispute commitie formed of selected members, aimed at sorting out member disputes. Create a private forum section where the commitie will hold dispute hearings.
Take the owner out of the picture. Meaning, gregr should not take any action on anything. He should direct the mods and the mods should take all action. Its one thing to think a mod is a dick and another to think the the people who own the place treat you like you are nothing. Where was the last time you heard the CEO directly talking to a regular joe in the billing department? Follow the chain of command. Whatever it takes, do not let the public think that the bad decisions are coming from the owner.
Create a dispute email form, a feedback form, etc. Let members email their concerns and not post insults, etc. in the public forums.
Make everyone feel good, but make paying members feel special. Nobody should feel deprived. Treat everyone with respect. Make being a member something to be proud of. Paying members should get advanced features. If you want to distinguish them from regular members, give them addons, dont take things away from the regulars!
If this was the case, i would pay you $50 right now. Sadly, its not how things are going down.
Thats what i have to say,