Location, location, location..
""" Never stay in the place where they don't see your value! ""
Being valued grants autonomy.
A father told his son: You graduated with honors, here is a 'Volkswagen Sedan' that I acquired many years ago... It is more than 50 years old, but before you give it to them, take it to the downtown car lot and tell them I want to sell it and find out how much they offer you.
The son went to the used car lot, returned to his father and said: They offered me $10,000 because it looks very worn out. The father told him, "Take him to the pawn shop."
The son went to the pawn shop, came back and told him; "The pawn shop offered only $1,000, supposedly because the car is very old."
Finally, the father asked his son to go to an antique car club and show them the car. The son took the car to the club, came back and told his father: Some people at the club offered $100,000! by him, since it is a "very unique and sought-after car among club members."
The father said to his son: I wanted you to know that the right place values you in the right way. If you are not valued, don't get angry, it means you are in the wrong place; "Those who know your value are those who appreciate you. Never stay in the place where they don't see your value!