chatcher said:
The fact that it was advertised should have clued everyone in that the event would have "insiders" and "outsiders" ... There is a lot of ego and vanity in the domain community. There are grudges and rivalries. There are bitter feuds.
I didn't notice any "insiders" and "outsiders", Chuck. All I saw was common ground which, perhaps, is the great equalizer.
Everyone was pleasant, cordial, approachable, helpful and willing to share valuable insights. Primetime players and understudies melded comfortably, collegially and in friendship. Egos, attitudes and status labels which pervade the online marketplace were simply not present at the conference.
"Grudges and rivalries" were either put aside in the interest of professionalism, resolved privately or dissolved under the glowing good will which seemed to be omnipresent from day one.
For some of you, that may be difficult to picture. And I understand that. But when familiar screen names and avatars are brought to life by handshakes, smiles and face-to-face dialog, combative stereotypes yield to more reliable personal assays.
As we have all witnessed and, in many instances, experienced, textual forum discussion is easily misinterpreted and often lends itself to unintended conflict. It's a lousy substitute for personal contact and cordial, extended dialog. The underlying magic of power networking is that stubborn stereotypes and stupid grievances melt when human personality is revealed and combatants open-up and get to know each other as
real people.
There is room for more events. Who else is organizing one? I'd like to see another organized around a different point of view. Who will step up to the plate to put one together?
This is precisely the kind of unnecessary and divisive crap that seeds conflict, perpetuates "grudges and rivalries" and impedes collegial cooperation. Get over yourself, Chuck. You'll be amazed at what can be accomplished by simply extending your hand as an instrument of conciliation, rather than a fist.