Several points with your Fund Pilot example. Are you trying to reinforce the idea that a trademark owner gets the domain name, too? There's quite a bit of experience to say that's not so, but let's take a closer look at your example case. BTW, IANAL and this is not legal advice, but you knew that.
True, the German firm got Fund Pilot on an ITU. Ordinarily the USPTO will not issue a registration, they will issue a Notice of Allowance. This means that your registration is provisionally approved, but you have six months (IIRC) to actually use the mark in commerce, and then you can file an Amendment to Use and get the registration.
However in this case, the German firm already held the mark in Germany, so this gave them a leg up in registering the mark in the US on the assumption they would be offering the same service in the US as already provided in Germany.
But does this give them the domain name? No, they don't have stockpilot.com, at least not yet.
When (if) this goes before WIPO, the German company must still show the elements necessary to grab the domain. I assume the number one thing they will argue is bad faith. Why? Look at the timeline:
-- 4 Feb 2000 - MLP Finanzdienstleistungen AG files in Germany
-- 15 May 2000 - MLP Finanzdienstleistungen AG gets the German mark
-- 21 Aug 2000 - The .com is registered by the US party.
Did the American dude see the German service and decide that was a cool name and grab the dot com for himself, three months after the TM was registered in Germany? I have no way of knowing. But if I were the German firm, that's probably how I would argue my case. Who will win? I don't know that either. But my point is the case is more complex than your overview suggested.
As to big guys stealing marks from little guys, consider Ty Warner, who tried to get the nice two-letter domain name TY.COM from someone who already had it. Ty (Beanie Babies) is surely a famous mark, but the owner of the .com resisted and it was privately settled for an undisclosed amount, but I bet it was a lot of Peace Bears and Grunts.
And look at one of the few pure "dot com" registrations, which are very hard to get--amazon.com. They have the domain name and a gen-u-ine registered trademark on it. But do they have the dot net and dot org? Check it out.
When a big guy with a î muscles up to grab your dot com, if he gets it easily it's probably because you were scared off by a letter from a Great Big Law Firm, or maybe you have guilty knowledge that your motives weren't 100% pure, and decide not to fight it at WIPO. EIther way, I know of cases where people who could probably have fought successfully just faded away...