Except that you're adamantly against Forever Registration while potentially setting yourself up for failure if there is no lawyer involved. Plus, I must add, you might be putting your family members at risk. Surely, a name is not enough. What else do they store above that: a driver's license, passport...? I know my beneficiary on financial platforms take name, resident, and SSN. I would call your protection weak if it's name only, very easily to be social engineered then.
Wouldn't you advocate for both on, say a $100,000 name, then bundle that with CS rep instructions? Seems like these two would work better than CS instructions alone.
But, I get it. The core of your argument is against Epik, nothing more.